If Friends and Cheers had a baby…

We’re almost there! Almost there and I am burnt out from writing. How do novelists do this? How Emily Bronte, were you okay?? James Patterson? Sheesh. Well here’s a few pictures of me and the celebrities i’ve met in my twenties:

*Snaps* *Snaps* *Snaps* We are nearing the end of our journey together, for the last month you’ve read my thoughts, my worries, my anger, my depression, my life, up until now. Writing is hard, but so is therapy. Therapy is worth it, and so is life. Life is frustrating, but so is death. Where am I going with this? You tell me.

TLDR: It’s complicated. The build up to coming out is very dramatic and epitomizes gay culture almost too well. First, you (and you alone) decide that it’s time to come out of the closet. Too long have you spent your nights stuck between the winter coat and the suit your…

Don’t worry, this will be lighthearted I’ve written extensively of a singular ex in the last month—and that’s about as much airtime as I want to give him. But it really had me thinking of all of the “loves” of my twenties and what they all had in common besides…

I blinked and now I’m thirty. I have wanted to be in my thirties since I was eighteen—what do you think that says about me? It tells me that I’m always wanting the next, best thing to happen instead of appreciating what I have. Personally, I think it makes me…

Ah, to be gay and Asian in this day and age… Nothing I’m about to say is new, but it bears repeating that being gay and Asian is annoying. Not in regards to my identity, itself — to that end, being both gay and Asian is an amazing cultural pot…

I love going to therapy, so let’s talk about it… Tomorrow will be my last therapy appointment—shocking, I know. I’ve been in therapy, on and off, for the last five years and it feels odd to not have that safety net of a weekly appointment beneath me. But I feel…

30 is gonna be the start of: leaving when I want to leave, staying in when I want to stay in, and not giving a reason why. I struggle with FOMO—chalk it up to my anxiety, but I always feel like I have to be where the people are…where have…